For some reason, humans have some gene that wants to make simple issues complex. Over complicating. Making something bigger than it is. Creating a mountain out of a molehill.
Take my niece, for example, she dropped out of high school and now 2 years later she decided she wants to go the college. There are many successful people who had a similar path, right? I decided to help her in this process, so we started to look for the best resources.
There are several free websites that offer GED instruction, and I really like the video lessons from the websites BestGEDClasses.org and Covcell.com because they’re so visual and come with many explanations. This worked pretty well we were making a progress until my niece started to have doubts about everything, her ability to learn, her future plans, books, and websites. She wanted to argue about everything!
Call it what you want, but there aren’t very many things that mess up situations in life more than making a problem or situation grow to disproportionately. Think of the last time you had an argument or disagreement with someone – did you find it escalate? Each side digging their heels in more?